Tuesday, September 27, 2011

Saturdays with "Bruce Wayne"

Since arriving in Sydney I have had the intention of finding a job given that I am supporting my entire education from the “infamous student loans”..Considering the first semester was a pretty transitional time, with getting used to being back in school and all! I figured I’d hold off and make sure I was well adjusted before going on the hunt. I guess I didn’t even factor into the equation the possibility of a job finding me.

I actually really lucked out with my job working with "Bruce Wayne". Having befriended some second year masters students after I arrived, I was contacted one day by a girl with an opportunity to work her old job that she was no longer able to. She informed me that it was a pretty easy set up as I would be a companion or “executive personal assistant” (as he likes to call it) to a 40 year old dying man with Motor Neuron Disease aka Lou Gehrig's disease..  A disease I mostly knew about through the obvious famous Steven Hawking, but also from having to read Tuesdays with Morrie exactly three different times from high school to college for a variety of classes.
Motor Neuron Disease is when messages from nerve cells in the brain and spinal cord are disrupted, the result being gradual muscle weakening, and wasting away which eventually destroys the cells that control muscle activity for speaking, walking, breathing, and swallowing. Though the prognosis is different for everyone, in "Mr. Wayne’s" case he is in his third and expected final year of the disease. Though I did some reading to understand exactly what was going on, most of my knowledge about the effects of the disease I have to admit came from the New York Times bestseller…


Sometimes I have no choice but to just laugh about different situations I have found my self in over the years.  This job for instance almost forces an “executive assistant” to experience a roller coaster worth of emotions and possible psychological counseling for the not so thick skinned. Though I have learned that I’m capable of handling some pretty crazy stuff, it ceases to amaze me the curve balls we are thrown in life.  What originally started as a job to assist him in lighting cigarettes (yes, really.) has turned into a position where I am doing way more then I ever imagined doing for anyone… From watching Pixar movies, helping with finances, to even writing letters from beyond the grave, I am learning a book full of life lessons: more then I could have ever learned from good old Morrie. 


One of his sketches  





Just another chapter in the book of life, my eyes have once again been opened to the beauty of living to the fullest when you can. Spending 30+ hours a week with a 40 year old dying man will make you appreciate what you have and realize that no matter your problems, they could most certainly always be worse. "Mr. Wayne", a previous creative arts director for numerous magazines and TV shows in Sydney, could quite possibly one of the most eccentric and artistic people I have ever met.  We discuss lots of different matters during my 9 hour, and sometimes 24 hour shifts, but some of the most momentous are when we discuss theories and experiences in life.  For instance he has explained to me a couple times one of the biggest issues he has with his illness is the regret he feels about delaying his dreams of finishing a comic book he started when he was younger.  After having shared with me the book in progress I can understand the disappointment of not finishing and fulfilling a passion you thought was destiny. Constantly reminding me to fulfill dreams, and do what I want now, he can be pretty inspirational considering the circumstances  

 


 




Though obviously the job can be pretty morbid at times, 4 months into it I have realized I have no choice but to be in it for the long haul. As sarcastic and quirky as most of  the character personalities in his sketches, "Bruce Wayne" has become a good friend whose advice and opinion I have sought out more than once. Oddly enough, I am thankful to have such an interesting unconventional boss. Maybe I can be a little overly optimistic at times. But all in all, sometimes I just have to smile when I think about how I found a really good friend in Sydney in one of the most unlikely of places. LIFE most certainly works in mysterious ways…   

 That is all. Have a wonderful day!!!

Monday, September 19, 2011

Some of my favorites :-D




“You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself in any direction you choose. You’re on your own. And you know what you know. You are the guy who’ll decide where to go.” – Dr. Seuss







 "A smile starts on the lips, a grin spreads  to the eyes, a chuckle comes from the belly  but a good laugh bursts forth from the soul, overflows and bubbles all around"


  
   





 The mind is everything. What you think, you  become - Buddha







"And remember, no matter where you go, there you are- Confucius



“He who knows others is wise. He who knows himself is enlightened.” - Lao Tzu
       



" No one can ruin your day without your   permission"
When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be.......




"A candle throws its light into the darkness. In a nasty world, so shines the good deed. Make sure the fortune that you seek is the fortune that you need"- Ben Harper


Sunday, September 18, 2011

Let Food Be Thy Medicine and Medicine Be Thy Food



Trying to eat "healthy" is a battle most people encounter on a regular basis.  There are always those nacho and ice cream cravings that you sometimes can’t get through the day without. Not to mention the late night pizza or Australian equivalent: KEBABS. And of course the reason for eating late night to begin with....alcohol. The deal sealer.  The X's on your eyes. The reason you want to resort back to those not so healthy options even after the fact...
Ahh..It’s a never ending cycle of Crave. Consume. Regret. (at least in my life) Though I agree 120% there needs to be indulgences in life. I’m discovering more and more each day how much we all just need to find the balance to food and our consumption. How can we find a healthy routine that incorporates the elements that will allow us to feel in harmony with our bodies and our surroundings? Yes it will be different for everyone.  However I wanted to share my latest and greatest development of food in my life.  A process in which I am intentionally having to make very mindful decisions about the process of selecting food and to make this latest phase of my life not about a diet craze, but about a lifestyle change.  I’m writing this not only to share with whomever cares about selecting healthier food for overall well being, but also as encouragement for myself to remember the roots of why I want to really jump in head first to this lifestyle.  I’m hoping that in sharing this new and exciting journey it will also help me to stay focused on my goal, and that goal is simply, to  feel organically happy and healthy, because  YOU ARE WHAT YOU EAT. J

  "Let food be thy medicine and medicine be thy food."

I have to thank both of my fabulous parents for ingraining the power of healthy food into my life at a young age.  My mother, though she died at the tender age of 46, was the beacon of health, teaching me the value of creating, mixing and trying new and different foods to create a palate of delicious goodness not only for the taste buds but for the bod.  The turning point however for discovering the POWER of food came when my mother fell ill of melanoma skin cancer with a brain tumor. Through her treatment of the traditional medical procedures consisting of chemo, radiation, and surgeries, my father took it upon himself through the education of library books and many out of the box practitioners to incorporate my newest friends...the SUPER FOODS into her and our lives.
At the age of 15, when my father started bringing home all organic fruits, vegetables, pureed wheat germ, wheatgrass, spirulina and berry mixes such as Acai among other vitamins and supplements I didn’t think much of it, however rolled with the punches and helped in the process of getting my mother to consume it.   Pumping all these foods into her and our systems opened my eyes to how beneficial food can be to a person and their overall wellness.  Though obviously my mother didn’t make it, it is amazing how healthy and vibrant she was through her illness and I like to believe to this day, it had all to do with my father’s innate response to take it back to the basics with nature's way.  I don’t think my father to this day understands the seeds he planted in my life for discovering new ways to take care of our bodies, for they clearly are vessels that need to be treated with care and respect so they can thrive,enhance, and protect us in every situation we encounter and  face on an everyday basis.
Monteverde Friends preparing food together

After college, having battled finding a healthy balance with the regular consumption of alcohol and all varieties of healthy and unhealthy food, I took a teaching position in a small mountain community in the cloud forest of Costa Rica.  Among many beautiful life changing experiences I encountered during my year and half life living in Monteverde, one of the most influential was discovering a class of people whom really explored new food ideas with delicious healthy ingredients.  The majority of the people whom I worked with and lived among through the community had adapted a vegan or vegetarian diet of some sort. Many of them also adapted a sustainable living environment where they raised their own chickens and produced their own dairy. Through weekly potlucks and group dinners my world in this area of living expanded above and beyond. They broadened my awareness and taught me new ideas and techniques of how to create beautiful tasty dishes using natural ingredients.  This “healthy” way of living I soon discovered was not just something that occurs occasionally for these people, or once a week for the communal dinners...


Friends chowin down at a dinner
    This was a LIFESTYLE. My friends not only worked together, but shared together outside of school. Helping each other in the community was a focal part of everyday life.  This even included  participating in activities such as yoga, hikes through the cloud forest, environmental education, salsa dancing and many other simple natural influences. From my perspective, the focus was organic.  The intention was to keep life as simple enough to enjoy and thrive off of what the community has to offer. At the time, since I was still new to this way of living, I embraced the lifestyle but was hesitant at times knowing it would take time to be so full on. Overall this experience was the catalyst for positive change in my life.  I am eternally grateful that I lived among such a vibrant community in a Eco-friendly culture with some of the most amazing, influential,and inspiring people I have ever met.
Me with fellow teachers at a  Potluck dinner

Having lived at home with my father for the past year after Costa Rica and before my most recent move to Australia, I was once again emerged into a health zone.  It is refreshing to see the person my father has developed into over the past 11 years since he first discovered the power of food. Every morning I had a fresh smoothie waiting in the fridge when I woke up pumped with vitamins and  healthy goodness. Among the delicious breakfasts we had everyday, we ate regular meals that consisted of fresh vegetables and local fish and crabs that my father and other members of the community caught. It was during this time when I lived at home, or honestly looking back on it, the year I lived in a retreat, I was again taught the value of taking care of our bodies through food and how to do it through moderation and portion control.  One of the greatest lessons my father has taught me since my mother’s illness and his own cancer experiences, (given that he has been diagnosed twice with two different types) “Your body talks to you, you have to have the intuition and the sense to listen to it.” Though my father told me this when I was 15, I think I am finally learning the true meaning of it 10 years later. What exactly are our bodies telling us? How do we feel after we eat a cheeseburger versus a salad packed with nutrition? Delicious Satisfaction for a split 60 seconds, but an hour later? How do our body respond physically? How do we feel mentally? How full are we?
Me and my Dad



I'm certainly not the expert on portion control and eating healthy food by any stretch of the imagination, Ive definitely eaten my fair share of cheeseburgers.  What I'm getting at though, is when comparing the two options and then reflecting on our bodies response to them, what is the difference? Is it worth it, and are there short and  long term effects to either option?
home grown wheatgrass at my Dad's
 The entire reason for choosing to write this blog today is that I have been on one of the greatest health kicks of my life for the past month and have never felt so alive, energized or empowered.  It has simply just opened my eyes once again to the power of food. I think we sometimes under estimate the value of nature and what is so voluptuously provided for us on this luscious earth.
 The beauty of nature surrounds us and if we take a step back and look at all of the health benefits that eating natural raw food does for our bodies I think we will be amazed the power that can come from within. Evidence based research has shown the healing components that food can have for us not only physically but mentally as well. For example just having two hand fulls of cashews has been proven to have the therapeutic equivalence of a prescription of Prozac which is used to treat depression.

 One of my favorite documentaries which has inspired me to embrace a more organic approach to this way of living is the film FOOD MATTERS which shows more in depth ideas of what all these super foods can do for us. Just my latest and greatest of new hobbies, I hope whoever reads this understands why I or anyone would want to embrace the simplicity of it all. Obviously I am no expert on the topic, but I just wanted to share, discuss, and embark in discovery  with  anyone who is curious of the benefits of  nature and and how beautiful it can be to our lives both inside and out. J


Wednesday, September 7, 2011

just another day in paradise..



Found on the beach in Yamba which is a 10 hour drive north of Sydney. I took a mini trip with a fellow student from Vermont up the coast. We spent the week at the beach with some of her friends. This is one of my favorite photos :-)



This picture is from Byron Bay where we had a bonfire on the beach. Absolutely beautiful. It was towards the end of winter when we went so it was a little chilly, here we are having an 'anti raindance'...it didn't work and we had to run for 30 minutes in pouring rain to escape, wouldn't have minded it so much if i didn't have my camera!!!!!

The First Sunday of every month we (including most of my Newtown friends and about 5 out of my 9 roommates) venture across the street to Sydney Park for some Dubbed reggae music where we dance footloose and fancy free among the locals of all ages shapes and sizes.  My favorite Sunday activity considering it’s a free afternoon solely consisting of basking in the sun, hanging out with hoolahooping hippies, chippering children, and dancing into the sunset.









OT friends; Jen from San Fran and Kylie, local Aussie :-)
Main campus...this is not where I have class but I am here pretty much 4 times a week given I study at the library directly across the street. !












local birds


My first Kangaroos! It only took 6 months to see
them!!!  But it was well worth the wait!
















Winter In July....Every year Bondi Beach which is the local and largest beach in Sydney holds a week long festival celebrating winter. This year they had a ice skating rink on the beach. It was beautiful and the water was actually warm! ( at least i thought so!)  I'm actually looking into moving out to this beach for next semester. The only issue is it is extremely expensive, so my chances of finding the perfect place for a cheap price are slim. But that certainly doesn't mean I'm going to stop looking!


Bondi Beach

Monday, September 5, 2011

In the 'moment' of OT school






Becky my British buddy &  fellow OT student
8 months… So I’ve realized after I have been in Sydney for over half a year, there was a lot I wanted to share a about my life and what I am up to. The longer I am here, the more I realize how dependent I am on Facebook/ E-mails/phone calls/Skype to keep in contact with friends and family. Given the time difference and my busy schedule with work and UNI assignments, it has become increasingly difficult to keep up with it all and have been feeling guilt about not keeping in touch. SOoOooOoo...I realized if anyone was interested in mi vida, this was a better and more personal approach to keep everyone informed, and if you have the time can write back as well.

 But just to start, a Masters degree abroad is everything I guess I thought it would be and more. Everyone is always asking me why I chose to get a degree abroad if the United States has everything there is to offer in terms of the health field and the curriculum.  However if there is anything that I have learned in life thus far it is this…. though education through school books is informative, nothing beats experience, especially cultural experience.  
House # 1

Traveling has opened my eyes to all the different ways of life that are available and out there.  Especially in relation to the health field, where one is thrust upon working among a diverse demographic. What’s a better way to truly  understand a culture and a way of life then to be fully immersed in one different then your own?  8 months in the grand scheme of life is really not that long, and just looking back in the 2 houses that I have lived in thus far, I have lived among 14 different ethnicitys. That’s 8 months, 2 houses……  Just for an idea, we are talking: Irish, Chinese, Indian, Malaysian, Turkish, German, Vietnamese, Sri Lankan, Norwegian, Danish, British, Ethiopian, New Zealander and of course Australian. What is more fascinating is that I have learned something unique about each and every individual through everyday life interaction. Everyone speaks a different first language, has a different religion or set of beliefs, different way of preparing and eating their version of delicious food, different ways of spending their free time on the week nights and week ends, different definitions of the word, "clean"... It has been absolutely intriguing to be thrown into such unique environments and to get to know each individual on a very personal level.
House # 2

Just some favorites to share; making and drinking nightly Masala tea with Indian brothers, preparing and Cooking Vietnamese spring rolls, learning to make different kinds of typical Sri Lankan lentil and rice curries, and from the majority of all 23 of them learning the Universal worldwide views of American lifestyle/culture including but most definitely not limited to that  of gun control, health care, the war in Iraq and Afghanistan, President Bush/Obama, college life, and where I was during 9/11.....Dare I mention why sometimes I say that I'm Canadian?......
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As a future Occupational Therapist, whose core values are to be client centered, one of the main tasks entails creating a therapeutic rehabilitation plan around an individual’s preferred way of living.  In exposing myself in a environment with so many different backgrounds, I personally feel  I could not have chosen a better way to learn the morals and values that exists in so many different cultures.  We all have our own way, and well simply put, this is my way. Some people learn from books, some people learn visually or through audio. But I am a “doer” I learn through experience, I learn by interacting with others and truly understanding where and how a person is coming from. The beauty of it all, this type of living experience, this type of degree, is not only helping me to better understand others, it is helping me to better understand myself. It amazes me with how each experience we have in life comes reflection, growth, and helps builds character.

 Though living abroad is not always easy or a walk in the park, and will probably give me earlier wrinkle lines than the average person (hopefully mostly from laughing!), it has helped me personally to stay in present times and to focus on life as it is now in the current moment. Reflecting on my life, there have been many occasions where I have spent the majority of my time focusing on what has been or what will become.  It is extremely difficult for us as human beings to truly live harmoniously in present times. This is one of  my favorite parts of living abroad, given that change is such a relevant part of your daily regular life, it almost forces you to mindfully center your energy on the NOW.
Byron Bay
 
What is so fabulous about Australia and so very different then American culture in many ways is how the country was founded.  For anyone who doesn’t know, the roots of the society and the civilization came into existence from the mere imprisonment of British Citizens. During the 18th and 19th century over 170,000 convicts were transported to Australia to rid them of Europe.  This odd way of creating a society has generated one distinct way of life consisting mostly of people who live for the day and don’t really care what people think about it or them.  (Definitely one of my favorite quirky qualities about the culture here) A zest for life that is contagious to be around, it is awakening to be among individuals who aren’t afraid to live out of the box and earn to be unique in their own way.



All in all, life so far is so extraordinary it is unbelievable. It’s as if my dreams instantly became a reality the moment I stepped off the plane, and have only gotten better with each waking day.  I honestly don’t know how else to put it into words and almost feel guilty for writing about how happy I am.  It is just amazing how when you honestly are so blissfully in tune with what feels like perfection,  that you want to share your joy and positive experiences  with others and to encourage those who are struggling to keep steady on the right path.  This process of enjoying self discovery  reminds me exactly why I am going into the helping field.  When you are high on life, and embody genuine positive energy it helps enhance your practice to be the best professional you can be.  As a second semester occupational therapy student in a masters program, I have learned the core theories in which the curriculum of the practice is based around, which is mostly about enhancing the quality of life of the client. As a firm believer in practicing what you preach, I think it is only natural that Occupational Therapists are willing to go the extra mile to support and encourage their clients to fully become the best person they can be. 
 I am happy to admit that considering I will be nearly $100,000 in debt in 2 years that as I continue on in my program and develop into a working professional, I am learning the effects of positive thinking, living in the now and learning the benefits of being opened minded and becoming a global citizen. I can only hope that I am embodying the characteristics of a good therapist and hopefully becoming the best person I can be on both a personal and professional level. 
Miss and love you guys
Cheers xo